Have you observed this in life that “Happy People are always Thankful and vice-versa “Thanking people are always Happy”.
“You are not judged by your Wealth but by your Happiness“. If you are happy ✨️ and if people could see your happiness, and they would make a clear assessment that you are living a rich Life. So there is an invisible chain which connects our happiness to wealth. And the hidden secret of this happiness is Showing Gratitude!
What really happens when we Thank?
Let’s see the alternative ways of showing our Gratitude to others by verbal and non verbal communication.
- Appreciating others by uttering good words to them. For e.g., “You did a great job”, “You are so Helpful”, “Very kind of you”, “Happy meeting u”, “God has sent u In my life”
- Non-verbal language is through body language and gestures by giving them a hug 🫂, Handshake 🤝 , Claps 👏, pat on the shoulders, Fist bump👊a kind of appreciating success, happiness, joy. These are affirming gestures which indirectly shows the gratitude to others.
THANKING Reflects…
- You are Satisfied, happy
- Able to receive things Abundantly,
- Being in the state Joyfulness,
- And important one is you are acknowledging someone by accepting their Presence in your life,
- Builds relationship stronger,
- Increases your healthy emotions, moods and obviously good health.
What Resist us Expressing Gratitude?
Lets list out few emotional expressions and it’s resisting tendencies:
- #Jealousy# is one way of expressing anger where one fail to be thankful as they feel to possess things only for the self. So this kind of greedy nature resist the heart to give and resist the gratifying nature. Unfinished Anger stays within and takes the avatar of jealous.
- #Comparison# where one unconsciously built a habit of Comparing oneself with others and not being satisfied and Thankful for what they possess instead broods over their past and wonders the blessings of others how they received. The moment you start Comparing yourself with others it unconciously uproots jealousy within. So be aware of this dual emotional expressions.
- #Hesitation #is something that you delay expressing to verbalize gratitude. Failing to thank others by mere shyness is one way of resistance where one intended to hide the healthy emotional expressions like gratifying because of low self esteem, feeling timid, shame, sometimes due to guilt.
GRATEFULNESS OPENS THE GATEWAY TO ULTIMATE HAPPINESS!
Have you ever thought about the things that you are grateful for? In our monotonous lifestyle we engrossed in many superficial routines which makes us to forget about the blessings that we have! The most beautiful things are not visible to us just because we lost to live the life we already we have but trying to achieve something which is very far from our sight. Here is the gentle reminder to list out the things that you are grateful for. (For example you can list out as below)
- I am grateful for this moment I live
- I am grateful for the house I live
- I m grateful for the job I do
- I am thankful to God for giving me good health and wealth
- I am thankful and God protects me and guides me all the time
GRATITUDE IS ATTITUDE !!
Thanking unlocks the door of abundance, Grace, Blessings and Happiness on your way. It’s always easy to show your gratitude when you are in good mode of life. But if you are able to express yor gratitude in tough time that brings transformation and growth in your life! Try to thank atleast one person everyday in your life.
