Your Emotional Bond is determined by your Attachment Gained from your Parents

Your Emotional Bond is determined by your Attachment Gained from your Parents

Do you know that you have built attachment styles in you? How Healthy, Positive, Optimistic in emotional bond and relationship that you have built around you is based on the attachment that you have developed in your early days of your life. Henceforth, the earliest emotional bond that we formed with our Parents/Caregivers have tremendous impact that continues throughout one’s life.
Let’s see what is Attachment? BRITISH PSYCHOLOGIST JOHN BOWLBY was the first attachment Theorist who described attachment as a “Lasting psychological connectedness between human beings”.

UNDERSTAND YOUR PATTERN OF ATTACHMENT

Introspect and also provide a secure base for your Child to explore the world by understanding the attachment style that you had and that you have been developing in your children.
There are 4 types of Attachment patterns that we inculcate one of it strongly based on our earliest parental care and availability.

1.SECURE ATTACHMENT where the Parent build Trust by providing Quality time, Being Positive and responding the children’s need. Whereby the Child develop Trust in the relationship, Develop the Belief and being worthy of Life and Cope up even seperated and adapt to new situations and express the love when meets episode of reunion with parents.

2.AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT when an individual have neglecting or Abusive Parents/Caregivers in their ealy life, then they tend to show signs of avoiding Parents/Caregivers, Feel rejected or being loved, and child may internalize the Belief that they can’t depend on any relationship. As the Parents ignore and fail to attempt to be intimate with children the Child won’t show no stress even seperated and could not differentiate mother and others, showing signs of Avoidance by body language like turning away, not maintaining eye contact etc., and no preference for strangers too.

3.ANXIOUS / AMBIVALENT ATTACHMENT is the result of poor parental availability where the Parent is unreliable, not providing responsive care towards the needs of the Children which leads the Child to demonstrate signs of resisting interaction with mother especially during reunion episodes, Develop Anxiety, Not being confident, Display maladaptive Behaviour, Lacks Trust, Longing for intimacy in relationship.
4.DISORGANIZED ATTACHMENT is a pattern where Parents serve both as a source of comfort and fear and fail to form a clear attachment style which leads the Child to display confused behaviour, disoriented, unable to express emotional state, and portrait disorganized behaviour where fail to express and get confused about their emotional state.
These are attachment style which defines and determines the emotional bond and relationship that every individual develop. Identify your pattern and write to us if you need to reconstruct your pattern by proper and healthy guidance.

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